First Sour Candy live performance without Gaga

[HeavyMetalLover]

2 minutes ago, Twitter said:

Now I’m rude and condescending. 

Keep being dismissive.

[A Little Monsterrr Pronounsshe/her]

 

 

[little legend]

The irony of you demanding the gay community demands to prounance you with the way the feel comfortable ( and I'm absolutely I support this, but when a straight wants to be be equally respected you attack him saying that this is a gay forum ( which we are not, we are in a Lady Gaga forum that respect all kind of sexual orientations). Imagine if we were in a *straight* forum and someone said you are in the hetero community, we will call you whatever we want. You guys that provably have been bullied and felt bad for this reason ,you should have been the last person to do this on another user.

[Daddy]

 

@admin can you see this one

[Gone]

25 minutes ago, little legend said:

The irony of you demanding the gay community demands to prounance you with the way the feel comfortable ( and I'm absolutely I support this, but when a straight wants to be be equally respected you attack him saying that this is a gay forum ( which we are not, we are in a Lady Gaga forum that respect all kind of sexual orientations). Imagine if we were in a *straight* forum and someone said you are in the hetero community, we will call you whatever we want. You guys that provably have been bullied and felt bad for this reason ,you should have been the last person to do this on another user.

When the once known messiest user dishes out logic. You have to think.

[Aphrodizy26 PronounsShe/They/He]

2 hours ago, HeavyMetalLover said:

K! Respect goes both ways. You said something controversial then backtracked and it still doesn’t make sense. Then you talked down to someone. Telling someone to “at least read what you said” is rude.

I think it’s clear that when gays say “girl,” sis,” “bïtch,” we’re not being serious, and isn’t the quite the same as misgendering someone. So for you to “correct” people every single time is a little tiresome. 

If they don’t like those pronouns and don’t want to be addressed as such then they have every right to bring that up. No tea.

[Aphrodizy26 PronounsShe/They/He]

1 hour ago, little legend said:

The irony of you demanding the gay community demands to prounance you with the way the feel comfortable ( and I'm absolutely I support this, but when a straight wants to be be equally respected you attack him saying that this is a gay forum ( which we are not, we are in a Lady Gaga forum that respect all kind of sexual orientations). Imagine if we were in a *straight* forum and someone said you are in the hetero community, we will call you whatever we want. You guys that provably have been bullied and felt bad for this reason ,you should have been the last person to do this on another user.

Straight people aren’t oppressed with their pronouns. Therefore, this argument is kinda invalid.

[Aphrodizy26 PronounsShe/They/He]

2 hours ago, donatellab said:

Unfortunately all the videos have been taken down due to copyright. It was good, Gaga’s parts sounded a bit weird or distorted tho

I think they used the raw stems to mix it with the live band

[Gone]

6 minutes ago, Aphrodizy26 said:

Straight people aren’t oppressed with their pronouns. Therefore, this argument is kinda invalid.

I don’t think thats what they are saying...it’s flipping it over to the opposite saying if this forum was predominantly hetero-men. Etc.

[little legend]

22 minutes ago, Aphrodizy26 said:

Straight people aren’t oppressed with their pronouns. Therefore, this argument is kinda invalid.

As a gay might not feeling well with a pronounce ,the same can imply for a straight person . Why is it so hard to just respect everyone ( no matter if he/ she  is gay straight bi and etc.) 

[A Little Monsterrr Pronounsshe/her]

4 minutes ago, Delusional said:

A mess

 

[NotDoctor PronounsHe/they]

Anyway....

 

 

Why is the Boom Boom Pow head singing Gaga's parts???

[boobatella PronounsShe/Her]

If anyone’s interested then here’s the performance:

https://f.video.weibocdn.com/Xw9EXHMvlx07K0DFA1aw01041204Op9T0E020.mp4?label=mp4_1080p&template=1920x1080.25.0&trans_finger=0bde055d9aa01b9f6bc04ccac8f0b471&media_id=4599549793337372&tp=8x8A3El:YTkl0eM8&us=0&ori=1&bf=4&ot=h&ps=3lckmu&uid=2i5Nb1&ab=3915-g1,966-g1,3370-g1,1493-g0,1192-g0,1191-g0,1258-g0&Expires=1612107144&ssig=Hm3wwSMgqN&KID=unistore,video 

[lavenderblondee PronounsShe/her]

I give up. 

But, what a fun performance. This really is a great song and brings up the energy.  I can only imagine how good a live performance would be with both. 

[admin Pronounshe/him]

6 hours ago, Grasim said:

 

@admin can you see this one

No :(

[admin Pronounshe/him]

6 hours ago, Grasim said:

 

@admin can you see this one

Yaaass

[vvoid_xX Pronounsxe/xem]

no idea whats happening i can focus enough to read all of that lmao.

have a nice day 🐸

[admin Pronounshe/him]

@HeavyMetalLover - I understand your point that the flippant use of sis and girl is not equivalent to misgendering a person. However, it’s still valid to express discomfort when a label or pronoun makes you seem uncomfortable for whatever reason.  My ex, who is very gay, was actually also triggered by being called sis or girl. The reasons aren’t really relevant. We can all make good-faith efforts on behalf of others. We’re not going to assign WPs for something that most here wouldn’t think is offensive, but at the same time if someone tells you a pronoun or label isn’t for them, that should be respected.

I know you found his opinion to be unfair and the response to be rude (I disagree, personally) - but he prefaced his opinion with a warning and immediately apologized if others found it offensive. Sometimes we get triggered and get so upset we lash out and feed the anger instead of taking a breath and switching to discourse and kindness. 

We’re all on the same team, like how I allow Fun Tonight haters to stay on the site. 

[gagaschickens]

9 hours ago, HeavyMetalLover said:

Stop correcting people when they say “gurl”, “sis”, etc. You’re in a gay community. Deal with it.

some might not feel comfortable with "sis","girl" or "queen". i get where ur coming from, i get the point, but its also about making the other person feel comfortable.

[HeavyMetalLover]

31 minutes ago, admin said:

@HeavyMetalLover - I understand your point that the flippant use of sis and girl is not equivalent to misgendering a person. However, it’s still valid to express discomfort when a label or pronoun makes you seem uncomfortable for whatever reason.  My ex, who is very gay, was actually also triggered by being called sis or girl. The reasons aren’t really relevant. We can all make good-faith efforts on behalf of others. We’re not going to assign WPs for something that most here wouldn’t think is offensive, but at the same time if someone tells you a pronoun or label isn’t for them, that should be respected.

I know you found his opinion to be unfair and the response to be rude (I disagree, personally) - but he prefaced his opinion with a warning and immediately apologized if others found it offensive. Sometimes we get triggered and get so upset we lash out and feed the anger instead of taking a breath and switching to discourse and kindness. 

We’re all on the same team, like how I allow Fun Tonight haters to stay on the site. 

Not "lashing out," just telling it the way I see it.