Miaou Pop-a-911-ster 40,522 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 (edited) So, in my country the nightclubs are closed since march 2020 aka more than 1 year. Personally, the nightclubs are really important for me cause I just love dancing with my friends and having an amazing night. It's almost like a therapy cause it's a way for me to forget every problem of my life. Since more than a year, this "therapy" is now impossible for me. I can understand the fact that it's difficult even impossible to control a pandemic with the opening of the nightclubs (no masks, people drunk, no social distance possible...etc). BUT I just want to express my feeling about this situation. It's long, really long and it feels like a never ending nightmare for me. Are you tired about the shutdown of nightclubs or you simply don't care ? Discuss Edited April 27, 2021 by Miaou 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
calmar Pronounsthey/them The Fame Popster 485 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 Personally I don't care since I wouldn't be caught dead in a nightclub, but I understand that some people are upset by the continued closures. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
BenG Popster for Sale 46,631 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 I'm tired of life 1 5 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
JennyWayne Pronounsshe/her A Popster Is Born 19,216 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 YESYESYESYESYESYES i NEED them to open right now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
admin Pronounshe/him Kindness Admin 8,738 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 I miss them dearly and cannot believe I was denied dancing to Chromatica and Future Nostalgia. That said, I don't rely on them as much for my fun and interactions with my friends. Now it's mostly dinners, live entertainment and board games. So it's not the worst for me, but I cannot wait to go and dance Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Franch Toast PronounsShe/her/hers Popstanne 5,076 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 23 minutes ago, calmar said: Personally I don't care since I wouldn't be caught dead in a nightclub, but I understand that some people are upset by the continued closures. Same. I'm not a fan of clubs. I love dancing, but for women, dancing in clubs means being ogled by gross men, which I don't enjoy, and straight men have even started hanging out at gay clubs to hit on women. I'd rather have private dance parties in people's homes. That said, I am empathetic toward people who miss burning off steam in clubs. 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
blankpaper Pronounsshe/her ARTPOPster 2,450 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 1 minute ago, Franch Toast said: but for women, dancing in clubs means being ogled by gross men, which I don't enjoy, and straight men have even started hanging out at gay clubs to hit on women God I love being ugly sometimes...this literally never happens to me anywhere 30 minutes ago, Miaou said: It's almost like a therapy cause it's a way for me to forget every problem of my life. This is how I felt about concerts and festivals and I panicked when things shut down and didn’t know how I’d be able to handle it it’s been surprisingly okay but I’m SO READY for them to come back 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GagaSine The Fame Popster 319 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 Personally no but I do miss going to concerts and the movie theater. I have never enjoyed night clubbing, I am never able to "let go" and enjoy myself, I just feel so painfully self conscious in every moment and it is impossible to enjoy anything, I feel so anxious and stupid no matter how many substances I consume. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
GagaSine The Fame Popster 319 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 I do miss having fancy cocktails 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Franch Toast PronounsShe/her/hers Popstanne 5,076 Posted April 27, 2021 Share Posted April 27, 2021 33 minutes ago, blankpaper said: God I love being ugly sometimes...this literally never happens to me anywhere This is how I felt about concerts and festivals and I panicked when things shut down and didn’t know how I’d be able to handle it it’s been surprisingly okay but I’m SO READY for them to come back 17 minutes ago, GagaSine said: Personally no but I do miss going to concerts and the movie theater. I have never enjoyed night clubbing, I am never able to "let go" and enjoy myself, I just feel so painfully self conscious in every moment and it is impossible to enjoy anything, I feel so anxious and stupid no matter how many substances I consume. I'm eager for concerts/festivals to return and to be able to go to the movie theatre without worry. I am far from attractive and have had yucky experiences in clubs, which I think has little to do with looks and more that I seem like an "easy" target. I do like dancing in dive bars though. I just hate the atmosphere of straight nightclubs, plus the drinks are so expensive. I'd rather hang out at a bar with fancy cocktails that you can savor or a dive bar with cheap beer/whiskey and a jukebox and pool table. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paradise is in my hands PronounsShe/her ARTPOPster 1,711 Posted April 28, 2021 Share Posted April 28, 2021 2 hours ago, Franch Toast said: Same. I'm not a fan of clubs. I love dancing, but for women, dancing in clubs means being ogled by gross men, which I don't enjoy, and straight men have even started hanging out at gay clubs to hit on women. I'd rather have private dance parties in people's homes. That said, I am empathetic toward people who miss burning off steam in clubs. I think I’ve only been to clubs a couple times my whole life. Lol I used to go to bars but I developed a phobia of them because of the reasons you listed. It’s sad that I can’t just enjoy time with friends without being harassed by men. Now I just enjoy drinks on a patio during the daytime. Lol 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirkje PronounsShe/her/hers Moderator 9,688 Posted April 28, 2021 Share Posted April 28, 2021 Nah. I dont care for them. I do miss theater and concerts though! But health first during this pandemic. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Battle For Your Life Pronounshe/him RIP Angel 1,992 Posted April 28, 2021 Share Posted April 28, 2021 No. Never been a fan of nightclubs and we're still dealing with the covid surge. Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
corvus albus Pronounshe/him Moderator 18,179 Posted April 28, 2021 Share Posted April 28, 2021 I knew that was your thread before I even opened it 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
boobatella PronounsShe/Her Pop-a-911-ster 25,270 Posted April 28, 2021 Share Posted April 28, 2021 I miss clubs and concerts so badly, you can just let yourself free, forget all your problems and dance for hours. I just miss going out in general, doesn’t matter if if i go to a club, to get cocktails on a summer terracce or restaurant Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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