ProjectJoanne PronounsHe/Him ARTPOPster 2,173 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 So the relationship I had was kinda on and off and I told the first part of this story on my status last night, if you want feel free to check it out. But this morning she told me she had been in the hospital for this past day and told me that she had done a lot of self reflecting and said that us being in a relationship isn't good for her mental health, which yeah, and that she isn't gonna be happy with me, and I completely understand since I'm gay. But then she said "Good luck finding someone who loves you more than I did" ... I know she loved me but she could've treated me better, she turned my coming out into her problem by saying I shouldn't have lied to her for so long and that she has trust issues. I get it, I shouldn't have lied for so long, but like I don't think you understand the pressures of being gay and having it be known in the world that we live in. Anyway, we're broken up, I'm feeling better, obviously still sad because I'm gonna miss her and her family for a while, but I'm gonna take this time to just be alive and focus on myself. I have my whole life to live and be in a relationship, I'm gonna spend my youth while I can doing what I want and focusing on only what I want. So, I'm kinda leaving bitter, but it was a bitter relationship and I'm happy that I'm finally just on my own instead of being in constant fear of simply having to talk to someone who was very toxic to me for over a year 2 13 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ARTPOP ARTPOPster 1,637 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 I'm a bit confused. You said you're gay but you were still dating a girl? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProjectJoanne PronounsHe/Him ARTPOPster 2,173 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Share Posted October 19, 2020 1 minute ago, ARTPOP said: I'm a bit confused. You said you're gay but you were still dating a girl? Yeah I was closeted Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
paradox ARTPOPster 1,158 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 Well at least you can start living as your authentic self now Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ARTPOP ARTPOPster 1,637 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 5 minutes ago, ProjectJoanne said: Yeah I was closeted Oh okay, well you know you can't blame her for feeling shocked, just don't take it personally you have to put yourself first 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Franch Toast PronounsShe/her/hers Popstanne 5,076 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 Wishing the best to both you and your ex. I know this is a challenging time, but now you'll be free to live a life that is true to you, and both of you will be happier in the long-run. I read your status, and I'm glad your dad is being so supportive. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Battle For Your Life Pronounshe/him RIP Angel 1,992 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 Sending love your way, DC. Everything's gonna be alright in time. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeavyMetalLover ARTPOPster 2,401 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 Congrats on shaving! It’ll be okay. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProjectJoanne PronounsHe/Him ARTPOPster 2,173 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Share Posted October 19, 2020 1 minute ago, HeavyMetalLover said: Congrats on shaving! It’ll be okay. Shaving? 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
crazybadbich97 Pronounsshe Popster This Way 564 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 1 hour ago, ProjectJoanne said: Shaving? yeah you shaved your heteronormative realtionship out , to get a better gay life! Like I do with my beard everyday(thats a lie) to feel feminine :D so sulk a little bit and get some hot virtual or real life safe action Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProjectJoanne PronounsHe/Him ARTPOPster 2,173 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Share Posted October 19, 2020 Just now, crazybadb*ch97 said: yeah you shaved your heteronormative realtionship out , to get a better gay life! Like I do with my beard everyday(thats a lie) to feel feminine :D so sulk a little bit and get some hot virtual or real life safe action Oh! Ok, well I'm only 17 so like I can't really do all that stuff yet, too much school Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProjectJoanne PronounsHe/Him ARTPOPster 2,173 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Share Posted October 19, 2020 20 minutes ago, crazybadbitch97 said: **removed post** I live in America but I'm NOT gonna download anything, I feel completely fine being alone 1 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
raragaga Pronouns𝖍𝖊/𝖍𝖎𝖒 The Fame Popster 276 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 when i read "she," I was gonna ask "you know you're gay right?" but now i get it lol 3 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gone Deactivated 14,311 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 I’m glad you are out and feeling the freedom that comes with it... but sorry that your relationship did end that way! I hope you are ok! 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
gagaschickens ARTPOPster 1,583 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 Wishing both you and your ex girlfriend the best 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProjectJoanne PronounsHe/Him ARTPOPster 2,173 Posted October 20, 2020 Author Share Posted October 20, 2020 So later today she send me a screenshot of a text from me saying “I’ll never leave you no matter what.” I gave NO response. First of all, gurl, YOU BROKE UP WITH ME! What are you TALKING ABOUT??? 2 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
lavenderblondee PronounsShe/her Popster to Popster 3,889 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 5 hours ago, ProjectJoanne said: So later today she send me a screenshot of a text from me saying “I’ll never leave you no matter what.” I gave NO response. First of all, gurl, YOU BROKE UP WITH ME! What are you TALKING ABOUT??? That..makes no sense. It does sound like she is going through some hard stuff herself, and may not be in the best mindset. Regardless, I think this is for the best. I'm sorry this is happening, but as others have said, this could really be a good thing in the long run and open you up to being able to live as 100% you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProjectJoanne PronounsHe/Him ARTPOPster 2,173 Posted October 20, 2020 Author Share Posted October 20, 2020 Also no this has nothing to do with my new single Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doot Popster This Way 821 Posted October 20, 2020 Share Posted October 20, 2020 Wait, why were you dating a girl if you came out as gay? Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
ProjectJoanne PronounsHe/Him ARTPOPster 2,173 Posted October 20, 2020 Author Share Posted October 20, 2020 Just now, Doot said: Wait, why were you dating a girl if you came out as gay? I was closeted when we became a thing Link to post Share on other sites More sharing options...
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